Having a sister is like having a best friend, and you didn’t even have to go far to find her out. She was there with you right from the time you were born. She understands your childhood and remembers your childhood better than you ever could. And although sometimes you might hate her with all the might and while some other times you will love her with all that you have. But there is no denying the fact that she will be there with you in your thick and thin throughout your life.
It is a great and entertaining article offering profound insights on sister love and a great bond between sisters. Your sister will stick with you even if you are trying to push her away. She will be your best friend, no matter what. And she is the one with whom you will be making some of the best memories of your life. Although there are no words for the relationship between two sisters, these come as close as anything ever can. Not all of them might hold for everyone, but everyone will be more than relate to them in one way or another. So here they are:
Your extended wardrobe
You can’t find anything to wear in your closet, well open her closet, and there will be something that you will want to wear. It is like having double the clothes that you own. But don’t forget, that is a two-way street, and the same applies to her. Your closet is the extended wardrobe to her.
Your human diary
You have bottled up feelings and have no one to talk to, well guess what; your sister is always available. She is still there to listen to all the crap that you have and are dealing with in your life. And she doesn’t even complain while hearing you rant about your best friend ditching you at the party for someone else.
Understands you better than anyone in the whole world
Because she has had to go through the same things at the same time as you because you both grew up in the same house. Sometimes you won’t even have to finish your sentence to make her understand your point, and sometimes you won’t also have to say a single word. That is how well your sister understands you. And there is no denying of that fact. After all, she is your go-to person for all kinds of situations.
Always there to accompany you outside
And you both are so much together that people often start to mistake you to be the same as your sister. They expect you to behave and react in the same way as your sister.
And whenever you need advice on any topic under the sun, you know that you have a personal counselor for yourself who is available 24×7. She does not even charge you for the advice she gives. And that is not also the best part. The best thing is that the advice she gives is always on spot. Why not, of course, she understands you and knows what is best for you. And sometimes she advises when you don’t want it. But it is still good advice. Better than what you thought.
Partner in crime
It may range from just covering up for you in front of your parents to going out and being crazy with you and let you have all the fun that you deserve. But there are also sometimes when she blows your well-planned strategy wide open. But even for that has a reasonably good reason and best interest for you at heart.
Help in Covering up Mess
Having is a sister is not only fun because she helps you cover up your mess at home but also in the outside world. She enables you to handle your social life way better than you could on your own. And for this, you owe your sister big time. Yes, having more popular sisters may have its disadvantages because you may feel like that her popularity is overshadowing you. But that still doesn’t take away the fact that she offers you great socializing tips.
Shopping sprees with her are therapy in itself
No matter what the occasion is, your sister is always ready to play dress-up with you and ready to going shopping with you and help you pick out that perfect dress for you. And the best thing about shopping with her is that her opinion is completely unbiased and you can trust her advice on the clothes that would look nice on you.
Sleepover with someone all your life
And you might not realize while you live together but having sleepovers with your sister is the best thing that you could ask for and is the best person you could ask for. Those endless talks, those late-night snacks, those crazy dancing sessions, they are all the package deal. You might want your own space once you grow up, but that doesn’t mean that sleepover with sister has to stop being any less fun. They are still the same.
One person, you can fall back on anytime
And rest assured, she will always there to catch you. She might scold you later but will catch you. You can tell her all your secrets and not worry about the world knowing. She wouldn’t rat you out for anything. She will always be there to protect you from anything wrong, small, or big. Because ever since the day you were born, she has always been protective of you.
She will pamper you when the whole world refuses
There are situations when the whole world is against you. But it’s your elder sister who will come to your rescue and her hug will give all that comfort. She could read your mind, and you need not utter a word out. Like a mom.
Help you grow and get your wings
India is a rigid society, many times girls are not allowed to fulfill their dreams, but your sister knows it that if it’s right then you should go and get it. For that, she can fight and convince all the elders around so that you can fly and grow.
As said earlier, a sister-sister relationship is beyond the world of words. But it is one of the most precious relations that a girl could ask for in her life. She might not say it often, or she might not say it at all. But she loves you more than you can imagine, and more than her words can justify.
Her love for you will always be shown in the little things like her saving you your favorite candy, or coming to your rescue when you were being bullied or she is giving her your favorite shoes because you liked them more or her getting you the dress that you like in the store but couldn’t buy. A sister-sister relation may be a love-hate relation, but it is way more of a love than a hate relation, and this fact is indisputable.
Aradhana Singhal is doing her post-graduation. Along with that, she is passionate about writing, hoose freelance writing projects occasionally. She writes because she thinks that it is the best way to communicate the ideas and thoughts to the masses. She is a staunch believer of, “A pen is mightier than a sword.” She has a philosophy that writing is going to bring a mass movement that is going to change humanity as we know it, of course, for the good!