How does help work?

This article is about the change in perspective about expectations. Almost all people have some or the other expectations in any form. All because of these expectations we change our behaviour towards others. Eventually, we become even more mean and selfish, over the period of time!

There are people who grossly mistake the concept of help. Considering the help MUST come from the person, whom we have helped in the past is a mistake. And you start feeling bad about it. The relationship between you starts to fall apart. In even worst situations you will build your image in a way that you stop helping others. Because you happen to have a bad experience with this person. Let me explain to you how and why?

Help is like a chain you have helped someone but the help did not come in return to you. BUT, if you look at the situation as an observer. As you will realize that you are just a medium of help for others! You help those in need and someone another person will come to help you. That “other person” you are not aware of… who is that person… but he comes to serve you. He is an angel. God has sent him/her. Remember all our good deeds get are getting registered with God. Whether someone recognizes it or not. That adds to your karma. And you are being rewarded by God.

Now here the mental block is we refuse to take help of strangers.. each coz we don’t them.. and we have different levels of fears that surround our mind.

But I’d you believe in the Philosophy of Karma then you will realize or understand that this is another person who is here to help you or you have some karmic accounts to settle down with them.

With this thought in mind, you will be able to move freely and will be able to accept help…

That’s the reason why you should always have good intentions for others.. this will help you in having a good karmic life.

Help is help that may come from a known person or stranger, you must have often heard that our known friends and relatives have not helped but that stranger came forward with a helping hand… this happens coz that’s how God wants us to receive help…

So from next time always help others without expectations… Let God give you the return that is meant for you. It could be a gift or result or it could end up repaying your old karmic accounts.

Nidhi Behl Vats (INDIA)
Nidhi Behl is an Author, columnist, blogger, inspirer, digital strategy consultant, and keeps on exploring new avenues that come her way. Passionate to write on life-related topics and found her love at – storyofsouls.com.

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