Easy tips to manage marriage relationship
Was wondering from where did this sudden maturity pour? It’s my daily routine that is teaching me to or maybe what I have been learning; the journey doesn’t tend to end up. Let me accept I don’t change overnight; it’s a gradual series of events and circumstances with which you have to deal daily! Attitude also matters how you are taking these situations. But yes definitely am enriching with new ways of discovering more and more maturity in “being ME” after marriage. If you are not convinced, it is fine – yes, adjusting was initially tricky, but it’s a new learning process, and it gradually helped me most in communicating maturely. Instead, then fighting, crying, and shouting, I try to analyze the situation. Leaving my comfort zone and moving to the new atmosphere was challenging.
Coping up with emotional distress, unexpected health issues, break from professional engagement, relocation, etc. such a vast list of adjustments. Although not convinced but it was the affection of our bond which kept me moving, against all the odds. Appreciating and respecting each other’s views was impossibly tough. But now, I am good with my assumptions and reactions, which are mostly sudden and undesirable, but that’s how I am! And, it’s not always necessary to accept other’s views. But we can appreciate it right! This is one vital Tip to manage marriage relationship.
Being expressive doesn’t mean to be vocal
Well, I need not sing the same song more often to convey my love. But yes, my actions and gestures are sufficient enough to let him know what I feel for him. I realized it’s just you need a hand to hold more than enough. It’s like reading his thoughts running in mind instantly, and reciprocating has become our routine. A sparkle in his eyes is enough to understand what is going through.
Being Significant isn’t that hard
It seems just yesterday when I felt I am in the utmost phase of maturity committed to my relationship and suddenly realized that there is a difference between a Stable and a Mature relationship. Our relationship was sailing well since last more than a year. But these months after the marriage has made each other mature towards our commitments and promises we share for each other, I equally realize, it’s okay not to text each other every moment, its trust what we carry for each other.
Staying connected isn’t always required
And I need not change for it. Sharing a lifetime partnership should be an easier task than a more burden of responsibility. Few things go without saying, I accepted my relationship does not need to be a perfect one. Still, equally, it doesn’t mean that annoying or changing little habits it so far so okay, but not the only agenda or goal to completely fix or change, turn around. Togetherness had created a silent shield of trust where we know we both stand together in all dark situations, jealousy or insecurity has triumph over commitment we make for each other.
Staying away from future concerns isn’t needed
Rather than agreeing on every aspect, it is a realization that discussing the future is not that scary; it gave light to a new direction of possibilities. A matured relationship doesn’t stop me from planning my future months ago, without stopping me from worrying about how will we survive the future together. Me being insane earlier bothered me, keeping me awake all alone. Then I felt the reasons which were obvious for him to hit the bed early. It is our daily bio-clock. I also understood that it’s not required to be awake for him, but yes, its time, which has helped me to realize it is beside him.
When I am mature, I can say that my relationship is also of mature intellect. Now, down the line, I can see two souls who do not criticize but have learned to grow spiritually and intellectually. Suddenly those arguments become silent nods, and life has become a song to chant. Hopeful that these practical and simple Tips to manage marriage relationship bring that charm back to life.
Dr Suhani is a fun-loving, passionate swimmer, a family-oriented professional with over 10+ years of experience in the Healthcare Sector, and a cook by hobby. She is a Doctorate in Organization Management and Organization Leadership from MGU, Delhi. MBA with Specialization in Hospital Administration (Major) and HR (Minor) from AMII. Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine, and Surgery from R.G.U.H.S., Karnataka. Diploma in Yoga and Naturopathy from Saurashtra University, Gujarat. Diploma in Emergency Medicine, from R.G.U.H.S., Karnataka.